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Women’s Empowerment Summit

So, I promoted it for weeks, maybe months. The date has come and gone but the gems and nuggets shared, will last for a long time. August 6th was a full day, including an 8:30am client. Here’s how it all went down.

Plans change…

With most clients that I book, I try to keep being mommy and being a businesswoman separate, but a lot of times they come together. Plans changed the day prior to the summit so my son came along for the ride and I booked a makeup client. I received a referral from one of my Bennett sisters who had a friend, who a friend that needed makeup for her videoshoot with Moneytrain and Anthony Hamilton. In order to have her on time for her video shoot and to give me a cushion for traveling, we left Greensboro a little after 6am. Luckily we did because we ran into construction on the way to Charlotte.

Let’s get started…

Tam was ready to get makeup started once we arrived (yes, I gave her a heads up that my son would be accompanying me). We talked, we sang, my son played video games (she has a son about the same age so she knows how things go), we enhanced the natural beauty and did a quick little photo shoot. Tam is a beautiful person, inside and out. Once I got cleaned up and packed, it was time to head to the summit.

Anthony Hamilton and TamTheModel
Moneytrain and TamTheModel
Moneytrain feat. Anthony Hamilton ”Down” video coming soon

SIDE NOTE: Ya girl was awake but I knew my sleepiness would set in soon. After all, I did go see Barn Dinner Theatre’s ”Soul Sistas” with the Drunk Talk Live crew on Friday night, but I’m a night owl so I figured I could make it through. We had an amazing time and the cast was phenomenal!

Alright now back to this summit.

We arrived a bit early, which gave me time to touch up my makeup and change clothes. So imagine this, my makeup kit is in my back seat so I’m taking out what I need so I don’t look like I need to go lay down somewhere. I’m going from the front to the back seat for about 20 minutes. Sitting, standing, sitting, standing, and fighting the heat while looking for the rain as well. Alright, face is on, then I had to change my shirt and shoes. Now I’m sure most ladies know how to do this without the goods hanging out; from having to do and assist with quick changes in public, you become a pro.

Time to begin…

The Women’s Empowerment Summit was amazing. I was one of the first to speak. This is a little bit of a different stage for me but truly honored to be in the presence of some amazing women that all had something to offer, and so many connections were made.

From knowing your worth, to knowing your value, to speaking up, to always making time for self care, to retiring yourself, to investing, to taking chances on yourself… there were so many gems.

Janelle Marie– teacher, administrator, site liaison, staff developer, and life coach
PRESS PLAY TO HEAR ”PUSHIN P”
LaWana (Slack) Mayfield– City Council at Large Elect
Chiquita Lindsay– Real estate Coach. She helps Women to retire early with real estate.
Patricia Johnson– Songstress, Mother, Graduate student- Professional Counselor
Virlynn Randolph– Rose of Audacity
Dr. Burnout (Kimberly Wilson)– Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Dr. Shana Lewis– Licensed Professional Counselor and a National Certified Counselor
Denise Bryers– Certified Personal Fitness Trainer
Brandi Morris– Owner of LADIWORKZ and Creator of “Know your Business”
Dr. Syleecia Thompson– Entrepreneur, Educator, Best-selling Author (The Resilience Factor), and Entertainment Executive
Founder of The Ageless Woman presents The Women’s Empowerment Summit- Theresa Flatts

I was able to connect with women from around the world and by being in attendance, I may have the opportunity to travel and share my gifts with more people. There are doors opening that I had no idea there was even a window.

Arleen
Dr. Shana
Tina Skindiva– Skincare Coach/ Author &
Arleen Jamison– Entrepreneur/ Author/ Life Coach
Dr. Syleecia Thompson (she received a copy of Yonitry: Volume 1)
Bryson hung out with me too

And guess what? My day still wasn’t over! Bryson and I stopped by one of my best friend’s house to see their house and catch up with her and her family. We made it back to Greensboro around 11pm, so it was indeed a jam packed day and we were ready for sleep.

Interested in being a guest on the podcast? Click HERE to schedule a what day works best for you or feel free to email me at: info@NiSisEyes.com with the subject: Through the Eyes of NiSi: The Podcast

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FYI: Annual Women in Power Brunch! Business Women of the Year Awards!

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The Ageless Woman

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This week’s episode of Through the Eyes of NiSi: The Podcast, we speak to the amazing Theresa Flatts. I met Ms. Theresa through the ‘Curvy Doc,’ Ms. Janelle Simmons (click HERE to learn more about the Curvy Doc).

You never know who you will cross on your journey that may be an integral part of your path. By meeting Ms. Theresa and having genuine conversation, we got to talking about our purpose, our passion and here we are today with her putting the final touches on her event, “The Ageless Woman Women’s Empowerment Summit” with me providing spoken word for the event. The organization, The Ageless Woman has a primary purpose to educate, empower, mentor, share, and help build confidence by teaching women the 3Ps of Empowerment passion, power, and purpose.

I have many conversations with my sister, Tina. If you’ve been with me for a while, you know that we are like twins, ten years apart. Through our relationship; I have learned what things I may experience in my body, in my health, in relationships, etc. So by attending this women’s empowerment summit, it’s like having all of your sister’s, young and old, pour into you. By hearing these women’s stories and their journeys, take some of these gems and reflect.

As women, we hold so much in. We don’t let our voices be heard enough about what we’re going through on a daily basis. We put our big girl panties on and keep pushing through (and sometimes while being in pain mentally and/or physically). By attending this event, don’t just stop there; stay connected, don’t let the business cards you get, just sit in a wallet. Follow up and stay connected, that person could be your bridge to your next opportunity.

Here’s the links to everything we discussed:

7 Minutes

The Ageless Woman’s Summit

Let your Voice be Heard Podcast: Coming Soon

As most of you know, one of our own Queens, Ms. Cheslie Kryst died by suicide earlier this year. There was so much anxiety around her crossing the threshold into her 30s and what that meant for her career. She wrote an article in Allure magazine last year speaking candidly about her journey to her 30s. From watching to the Red Table Talk show with Cheslie’s family, one thing I gathered is to be kind to everyone because you don’t know what they’re dealing with behind closed doors. People can smile in your face and life can look amazing on social media, but until that person lets you into their world and their thoughts; you have no idea what is going on.

Read the article: A Pageant Queen Reflects on Turning 30

Red Table Talk: Miss USA Cheslie Kryst

Click here to pre-order to get your signed copy of Yonitry: Volume 1 (Deadline is 7/21/22 to be available for you at the summit).

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Through the Eyes of NiSi: Episode 21- Vegas Music Spotlight

The music from today’s show comes from some of the amazing artists I saw during my Chapter 40 Celebration. Here’s the videos, links and more…

Press PLAY to listen to 5.4.22 music spotlight

Soul of Motown Vegas

These people are truly special to me, my Greensboro connection to Vegas. I know Cj and BL from performing in Greensboro many years ago. I met Sean virtually and Mo, also known as Big Sexy if you go see the show, rounds out the #soulofmotownvegas; the #2 show in Vegas! You will not be disappointed! The amazing part of this group are they are amazingly talented. Of course I’ve heard Cj and BL sing, and seen them perform but listen here, the robust sounds of thee lady of the group, Sean. She did the dang thang! I had to highlight her amazing voice. Unfortunately I don’t know Big Sexy’s talents outside of his vocals and cartwheels but when I say I had an amazing time at their show…. I definitely wanted to hear more.

Here’s how you can see what they’ve got coming up next:

Soul of Motown Vegas

NPerson Vegas

JusCallMeBL

Sean Stewart- Godfrey

HeIsCj

So I met Cj a long time ago, we’ve done shows together and had some long talks. It is great to continue to see him continue to grow and share his talent. So you know I couldn’t leave y’all without knowing how to find this multi-talented actor, singer, dancer, and children’s theater performer from Greensboro, NC. He has been seen in  Color Purple: The Musical, Hairspray, Love Machine: The Musical, Smokey Joes Cafe, Crowns, Black Nativity, Little Shop of Horrors and more.  CJ also worked as many characters for the Storybook Children’s Theatre. Aside from constantly working as a professional musical theater actor, he also teaches and performs hip hop and street dancing and is an accomplished national recording artist.

Here’s how you can see what he’s got coming up next:


HeIsCj

Ronnie Foster

I had no idea that I’d be meeting a legend… but I did! As I listened to the music and learned about all the people who have sampled his music, I knew I had to do a little research. This Grammy Nominated Artist, Composer and Producer has had his music sampled by Kanye West, A Tribe called Quest, J Cole, and many more. You may not know his name, but you may have heard his work.

Here’s how you can see what he’s got coming up next:


Ronnie Foster

Brian Newman

Just like Ronnie Foster, I did not know who Brian Newman was before I arrived in Las Vegas. Apparently, he’s a big deal and has had a residency for years. I met Brian… Lady GaGa’s trumpet player/bandleader and he is amazing at what he does. Just listen… just watch…

Here’s how you can see what he’s got coming up next:

Brian Newman

Tyriq Johnson

I have known Tyriq Johnson since I was a teenager (wow that’s crazy), back in Milwaukee. We’ve performed in shows together and I’ve followed his musical journey (yes, I was doing shows/plays when I was younger…it’s always been apart of my life). He’s long been known for his voice and his locs, but his voice far outweighs the length of his hair. Be sure to keep an ear out for his Earth, Wind and Fire tribute show, “Serpentine Fire.”

Here’s how you can see what he’s got coming up next:

Serpentine Fire Band

Santa Fe and the Fat City Horns

As I’ve said many times, I love live instrumentation. I dare not compare Santa Fe and the Fat City Horns to Mint Condition; but what I can say is that they both provide feel good music and have some amazing musicians. I hate that I wasn’t feeling my best when I saw this amazing group, but they kept me awake and feeling better than I was before I arrived. They have a few albums and new music coming soon. If you didn’t notice, Tyriq Johnson also sings with them. The video below was one of my favorite songs that night (although not the live performance I saw).

Here’s how you can see what he’s got coming up next:

Santa Fe & the Fat City Horns

Not feeling good but made it through the show

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Self- Love Finale (June 2018)

24. List 24 things that make you smile…

My son, live music, great surprises, being in love, makeup artistry, food, seeing my client see their transformation, helping someone in need, modeling, comedy, accomplishing something, newborns discovering, people that underestimate me, seeing my family after a short/long time, my favorite artists in concert, when I receive reviews, when I receive referrals, seeing love, seeing my students perform and excel, a great massage, stress free vacation, fun times with my bestie, fun times with my sis, seeing my name tagged on great photos of clients and/or myself.

25.  My favorite quote is…

“Beauty awakens the soul to act!”  You see it on everything associated with my business  because I believe it to be true.  I doesn’t necessarily have to mean outwardly beauty, it could mean the inner beauty, the inner kindness that inner energy that exudes from person to person that travels.  When you feel that positivity or someone smiles at you and you instantly feel a little better, it helps someone else.  In my business and in life; when you look good, you feel good- wake up and make a change even if it is a small ripple effect.

26.  What does self love mean to you?

Self love means loving yourself enough to accept you with no makeup on, flaws and all.  Love yourself when you make mistakes or when you feel as if you are on top of your game.  Accept you when you are behind closed doors or in front of paparazzi and love yourself through it all.  

27.  What positive changes have happened in the last year?

I have become more open to risks, as scary as they are- I have taken a leap.  I have started working in my passion of being a full time makeup artist.  I am in my #journeytothecrown for Ms. Full Figured NC.   I am in transition of moving to Charlotte.  I am…

28.  I deserve happiness because…

I deserve it!  Why not?

29.  What are 5 things you are grateful for this week ?

I am grateful for family, life, a place to lay my head, employment, grace/mercy.

30.  How will you make next month a great month?

Continue to be migraine free, work towards my goals of becoming Ms. Full Figured NC (if you’d like to support my journey by donation and/or sponsorship, please click the link: https://www.gofundme.com/denises-journey-to-msffnc-crown).   I will be working within my platform, assisting young and mature ladies in becoming the best versions of themselves.  I will also be settling in Charlotte, NC and networking and making that my new home so any referrals , send them my way.

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I want the title…

I wear many hats, have many titles but there’s one that I am going after now and that is (drumroll please)… Ms. Full Figured NC!!!

I will be taking you on my journey to the crown and hope that you enjoy this ride as much as I will. I have been wanting to do this amazing pageant for the past 2 years. I learned of it through the Director, as I met her years before as a model that I did makeup for during Durham Fashion Week (you never know why people come in your life, don’t burn bridges). I’ve followed her as she began the pageant and it has grown. Last year, I worked with 2 of the contestants as a Makeup Artist and one went on to take the crown, my fellow Bennett sister, Ashley Johnson.

So now, it’s my turn to step out on the platform and take my rightful crown. I hope that you will continue your support of me and be there as you always have. The pageant will take place in October and I will be keeping busy in the community with my other sister delegates. If you see us out and about, feel free to say hello.

I will be keeping you updated on my journey and how you can assist me in taking home the win, whether you can physically be here or not; I thank you in advance for being in my corner.

Thank you again,
~Your soon to be Ms. Full Figured NC